Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Update
Remember Psalms 147:3. "He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds." We have to continue living the faith to endure all of these situations that we are placed in.
I am wishing everyone a Happy New Year. In case you are out tonight, please be careful and responsible. You never know what is around the corner. Walk with God. I pray for your safety and joy.
Keith
Philippians 4:13
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
update
Thanks,
Keith
Please pray
Thanks,
Keith
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Hello
I am sorry for the delay in posting. We have been so busy lately---Christmas stuff. It has been a whirlwind. It has been good but tough. This seems to be Mother's favorite time of year. She has always been the type to give to us. She loves to do that. I hope everyone had a great Christmas. We do appreciate all the love and prayers during this time. It has helped. Praise God! I have felt a sense of peace. Lori told me she tried to keep me busy to help get through the holidays. She is great.
Mother has been doing about the same. Her heart rate has increased, but this seems to be normal for her. I wish there was a change to tell, but there isn't any. We will continue to gain strength through God.
Thanks and a late Merry Christmas and Happy new year,
Keith
Phil. 4:13
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Today
Mother is doing about the same. Her color and skin look good. She is still not responding to any commands. She is still considered to be in a coma state. I not sure if I am painting a good picture for some. Mother is still very sick, and her life is still in great danger. She is not mobile. She is not really responsive to anything. She does open her eyes, but she does not focus on us. She tends to look toward the injured side of her body. Words cannot describe how much each of you are appreciated. Times for are still enduring every day God allows us to breathe.
God sticks us to the fire, guides us to the lowest valleys, but He is always in control. We have to take comfort in that. He never sleeps, so we can. I have come to the conclusion that he places us in difficult situations so we can build our faith, and He gains all the glory. When we face difficult situations, we can defy God or we can trust in Him. I will always choose the latter. I do not want to preach to anyone, but maybe this can touch someone who reads it, because my God is loving. I have to believe this.
May God bless you and keep you, may His hands always be around you,
Keith
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Today
There is no real change to Mother today. She is doing better after they cleared the fluid from her lung. Her heart rate is still up. Sorry for the short message. She is really the same.
Keith
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Good morning
We are trying very hard to cope with this situation. It is very hard. We have lost our "Bud", for now.
Thanks to everyone for what you do,
Keith
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Today
The TEE procedure was not for mother. The nurse advised me that it was ordered in error. The procedure that they are going to do is a bronchoscopy. This is to see the details of her lungs. The doctor advised me that she thought mother has some sort of pneumonia. They are starting her on antibiotics. They have to change the type of trac she has to complete the procedure. This should happen today. Please continue praying for her. I am suspecting she is getting sicker. The problem is that she is not able to move around on her on. Once the body lays for a long period of time, other things can take over. I am afraid of this. I do not want my mother to suffer or struggle in any way.
Thanks for all of you,
Keith
Psalms 28:7
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Good morning
Keith
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving!
We will gather at Kena's house for lunch today. We will be minus a special important person, as all know. Mother is doing fine today. I know she would rather be will all of us, but God has not allowed that. Please say a special prayer for us today, because it will be rather hard on us. The holidays put our feelings in a different place. I feel more in touch with life and family during these times. I pray to God that he give us a sense of peace to make it through the day.
Don't eat to much and will blog soon.
Grandmother is out of the hospital. Special thanks to all that prayed for her. Thank You.
I am going to miss Mother's sweet potatoes. I hear everyone say that nothing is better than your Mother's cooking.
Take care and God bless,
Keith
Saturday, November 22, 2008
update
My Grandmother was admitted back into the hospital this week. Please include her in your prayers. She is going through these times with a lot on her shoulders. I love you Grandmother.
May your peace and love be through Jesus Christ,
Keith
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
I thank you for your prayers and thoughts. We really need your prayers tomorrow as we meet with case worker at the hospital to discuss Sue's care plan. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers tomorrow. We know Sue is in God's hands and He is watching over her. Please keep Kena, Keith, and Kyle in your prayers also. They have been so strong for me. I have been blessed with such wonderful family. These have been such tough times and only God has seen us through this. Only with our faith, knowing God is in control and He is going to heal Sue, we have we been able to face each day. And again I want to thank everyone for their prayers, thoughts, and kind words. We do have many great friends and we love each and every one of you. Life would be so lonely without you. Again I ask for your prayers for Sue. I love and miss her so much. Life as I knew it will never be the same without her. In God's name with love.
Thanks,
Kenny
Monday, November 17, 2008
Good Morning
Mother was doing fine this weekend. She is settling into her new environment. It is easier on the family because we can go in the room whenever and stay as long as we choose.
There is not any changes to report today. It seems to me that things are the same. We have to continue praying for change.
Thanks,
Keith
Friday, November 14, 2008
Mom
She is doing well today. She was resting very good at lunchtime. She really did not open eyes a whole lot. Maybe she was very tired. I would love to say more, but there is no significant changes.
Thanks to all that wished her a happy birthday and thought about her and us yesterday. I felt a strong presence of our Lord yesterday. I felt His arms surrounding us. It was appreciated. Praise God.
May you all have a special and great weekend,
KT
Go Bama and Lions!
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Happy 60th Birthday Mimi!!!
Happy Birthday!
Happy Birthday!!
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Mother
As Kena indicated, Mother's Birthday is tomorrow. Please say a prayer for our family, because it is going to be an emotional day. Thank you.
Mothers....we all have one. Some might not have the kind of relationship that is desired, but most do. I would challenge you to give your Mother a hug, a call, a note, or a kiss, because you never know what God's plans are. I wish desperately that I could have one more conversation with my Mother, because I would tell her how much she means to me. I say this with tears in my eyes, because it hurts so bad.
May God bless you,
Keith
Romans 8:28
Monday, November 10, 2008
We Need Everyone's Prayers
Some days are really harder than others. Today is one of those days. I just think "Is this really happening to us?" It most definitely is. I can't even think about the holidays. I wish I could just close my eyes and the holidays would be over. But, I have 4 precious little children that are really excited about Thanksgiving and Christmas. They are also sad because their Mimi will not be home to celebrate. Being together with family that you love is really what is special about the holidays. Right?
Thursday is Mom's birthday. She will be 60! I had planned on having a big 6-0 birthday party for her. I will celebrate with balloons and maybe a cake in Birmingham. I hope she will know that I am there to wish her a Happy Birthday. Also, Saturday is Mom and Dad's 40th wedding anniversary. Please remember my dad in your prayers for I'm sure this will be a hard day for him. There isn't any change with Mom. My Aunt Toots went to see her yesterday and she said she was really alert.
We are uplifted by all of your prayers everyday. Please continue to pray for a miracle. It is hard to have patience, but God is working on His time not ours. Thank you to our friends that respond on the blog. I look forward to the encouraging messages everyday. May God bless everyone.
"If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer."
Matthew 21:22
Kena
Friday, November 7, 2008
This Week
There is no real changes to Mother this week. We are still waiting on moving her to the long term facility. She is still considered in a coma state. She does still open her eyes during a sleep-wake cycle. She does move her head and mouth on occasions. She is still on the ventilator. She is still pulling for Alabama to beat LSU. I will report back with more this weekend.
God Bless,
Keith
Monday, November 3, 2008
Good morning
This weekend, she was doing some different things. She actually had some movement in her legs and more movement in her neck and head. This was caused by natural causes, but I have never seen her make any movements like that. It is showing us that things are changing for her. Praise our Lord!
Today is the 86th day. 86 days? That seems like a long time. She is missing a whole season, she is missing Alabama being #1, she missed Halloween (she does not like it anyway), she missed some of her kids' birthdays, she is going to miss a new President. But you know what? I do not really care. I would trade all of those things and more for her to get better. I love you Mother, and I pray you are on your way back to us!
Keith
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Today
She did move her head more than I have seen her before. Hopefully, that is a positive sign from God. We are still praying daily for some sort of positive change. We are told to not sweat the small stuff, but, in this situation, we are looking for the small things to increase our hopes and dreams.
I, personally, thank everyone that is concerned and overwhelmed with this nightmare. God will guide us through this deep dark forest we find ourselves in. We have to be faithful and loving to our Lord. He is the only way, and the light that illuminates our path.
Lord, our Father, which Art in Heaven, please show us some more postive signs. Amen.
KT
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Mom
Please keep praying for her complete healing.
Thanks,
Keith and Family
Monday, October 27, 2008
Today
This weekend, there was no real change to Mother. Her temperature was down to around 99. Her vital signs are good. They are periodically giving her some "calming" medicine to monitor her heart rate. She does get this elevated on occasions. I should know more this afternoon after I see her today.
Take care,
Keith and Family
Romans 8:28
Friday, October 24, 2008
Today
We met with some of the case workers from the hospital yesterday. They were giving us some options for the long term. Right now, Mother is still too sick to move to a long term facility. She is still running a temperature this morning. They are not treating it, because it is low grade. She still needs more time for God to work his miracle.
God has given us all these emotions as human beings. I will be very honest, it hurts us severely. I cannot imagine going through all the things that I have witnessed my Mother go through. I cannot tell you how much this has impacted all of our lives. We do not live in the world that we used to. It has changed, and I cannot stand it. But we, through God and Jesus Christ, will grow and persevere through this horrific accident.
We love you all in a special way.
Toots---I hope you are feeling well. Love you.
With Christ,
Keith and Family
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Update
I want to thank the ones that are truly concerned and probably make this website a daily ritual. Thanks for all the prayers.
Gob Bless,
Keith and Family
Monday, October 20, 2008
This weekend
God Bless,
Keith and Family
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Last night
Please pray for our Family. Mother's mother, my grandmother, was admitted into a local hospital last night. She is not taking this accident very well. She is a not the youngest chick either--sorry Grandmom. Mother is her oldest child, and she yearns for her to get better. All the parents out there cannot imagine--or some can--what she is going through.
We thank all that visits this site and pray for your well being also.
Praise God for all,
Keith and Family
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Today
The long term facility at Trinity is going to see assess Mother. This will allow them to see if she is ready for their facility.
Keith and Family
No change
We are constantly praying that we see more improvement. Lord is touching the hands of the doctors and nurses.
Keith and Family
Monday, October 13, 2008
This weekend
Thanks,
Keith and Family
Friday, October 10, 2008
Happy Birthday, Keith!
In Christ,
Kena
Today
They did another EEG yesterday. We are curious to see if the results have changed.
She is being trialed on a Trac collar at times--she is not doing very good on these. We have to pray to our Lord to allow her to be weened from the ventilator. That is the next step to her recovery.
Mother, I know if you were alert, you would be the first to wish me a Happy Birthday. I know you are thinking about it, so don't worry. We will have more of these things in the future. I love you so much.
Take care,
Keith and Family
John 16:33
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Praise God
It always exciting to get some kind of good news. Mother is doing well today. Dr. Hrynkiw removed the two drains and bolts from Mother's head today. He left the ventriculostomy in for now. He should remove it in a few days. He reviewed the CT scan from two days ago. He said that there was no more swelling of her fluid on her brain. He did not think that she was going to need a shunt put in. This is the part that is great news for us. We have been praying to not put that in. God is hearing us and working for our Mother. We love Him and Praise Him! We have to continue praying for our miracle to come.
Thanks to all,
Keith and Family
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Mother
Some of you know and have had interaction with our Mother. She is always on the go. She really never sits down and relaxes, so you can understand how hard this is on us. Our Mother is not the type to lay around. One day she will be up and at it again. We pray for these things in Christ's name. We really believe in our Faith and our Mother's determination. She is full of the Holy Spirit and full of determination. Come on Lord and Mother, show us what we are counting on. (Mom, you are going to laugh when you read this blog one day)
I Love you Mother,
Keith
PS Thanks Kena. I love you too.
Monday, October 6, 2008
Keep Praying
People always ask "What can I do for you?". It is hard for us to say there is nothing. All we ask for is prayer for God's Will to heal our mother. Please continue praying for her. I know life gets busy and sometimes people are forgotten. We are asking everyone to remember Mom in their everyday prayer. We could not get through this horrific time without all of you and God's everlasting presence.
Mom's fever is down tonight. The nurse took out her IV today around noon. She is getting an "IV Holiday" until tomorrow just to give her arm a rest. They did a CT scan on her shoulder and it did not show any dislocation. They also did a CT scan on her head and we will find out the results tomorrow.
I would like to say how much I appreciate my brother, Keith. He is going to the hospital everyday, several times a day to check on Mom. He is our saving grace now since we all can't be there everyday. Also, he is doing a great job keeping everyone updated on the blog. He is one terrific guy! I love you, Brother!
Once again, thank you for all your prayers, cards, calls, and meals you have given us. God is glorified in all that He is doing. We praise Him and thank Him.
Kena and Family
Last night
Thanks,
Keith and Family
Saturday, October 4, 2008
today
Thanks,
Keith and Family
Friday, October 3, 2008
Surgery
Keith
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Today
Thanks,
Keith and Family
I Corinthians 10:13
Another Day
The doctor has requested to see me and Kena today. He read the CT scan from two days ago. He said that Mother has an apparent brain bled on the right side. He said he needed to do another surgery to repair this and also put in the shunt to constantly drain the excessive CSF. Please pray that we make the decision that our Lord wants us to make. If the surgery takes place, Dr. Hrynkiw wants to do it tomorrow. I will let you know the outcome. We would like to ask for the continual prayers.
Thanks,
Keith and Family
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Last night
Keith and Family
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Today
The roller coaster ride is on the downhill fast pace like the mindbender at Six Flags. At times like this, we surround ourselves with Friends, Family, and most importantly, God.
Lord, we are Your hurting children crying out for You. Please Lord, we ask for miracles. We praise Your work. Heal and comfort our Mother and Family. In Christ's name, Amen.
Thanks to all,
Keith and Family
Monday, September 29, 2008
Today
Thanks,
Keith and Family
Saturday, September 27, 2008
New changes
The neurosurgeon did say that he saw improvement in her CT scan that he performed this morning. This means that what he did, with surgery, created an improvement from where she was. This is another little stride in the good way. Praise God! Everytime that I see or hear something that reminds me of my Mother, I say a prayer for her. So I am asking everyone to please say a prayer everytime you think of our Mother.
Thanks,
Keith and Family
Friday, September 26, 2008
Today
She had her eyes open all day. This nurse said she was more alert today. They placed three drains in Mother's brain to constantly monitor the pressure. Once the fluid turns a more clear color then two of the drains will be removed. She is settling into her new "home". We praise God for another day with her. We cannot wait until tomorrow, because it will be another one.
The accident is a life changing event for all of us, and God has taken this opportunity for us to get closer to him. Mother is his precious child. He said that we cannot comprehend His ways. Our ways are not the same as His ways. Lord, we will trust and pray that You are working for us as we are working for You.
God bless,
Keith and Family
Today
I will update again after I see her at 430.
Thanks and God Bless,
Keith and Family
Thursday, September 25, 2008
The move
Today was a long, anxious, and tiresome day. Mother was taken to the OR around 1140 am. She underwent the anesthesia, and was in surgery for approximately 2 hours. The doctor came out, and discussed what was performed. He tackled the areas of concern, and she did well. It was was a relief. Praise God! The doctor removed a blood clot that was on the left side of the brain. He relieved an enormous amount of pressure from her brain. He relieved a pocket of fluid that was collecting under her skin but above the skull.
This is the first step, and it was a big one. It is amazing how powerful the work of our Lord is, and He has told us that if we believe, we can move mountains. We have to wait and see how this new environment and how the procedures will help Mother. We thank you all, and we Glorify God. He is great.
Thanks,
Keith and Family
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Today
She will be moved tomorrow to Trinity in Birmingham. Please continue praying for our Mother. She is still in a dark place, but she has Our Shepherd looking over her.
Thanks for all,
Keith and Family
Sunday, September 21, 2008
This weekend
We have decided to intiate a move to Trinity Hospital in Birmingham. Mother will be transported by a critical care unit on Wednesday morning. She will be seen by the neuro group that resides at Trinity neuro ICU. We are pleased that this is happening. We are very thankful to the Doctors, Nurses, and staff at Baptist. I fully believe that they had a hand in saving my mother's life. They have been so kind and gentle with their care of Mother. She has made many new friends with her stay there. Thank you to Baptist.
We stand very faithful in the Lord, our Father. He is showing us this path, and we are going to follow his instructions with this move. We still ask for the continued prayers and we will continue to update this site.
With our blessing from the Lord,
Keith and Family
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Update for Today
Mom has had a fever last night and today. They think it could be an infection in her lungs. She is a little congested, but the nurse doesn't think it is too bad. They are terrific about suctioning her and trying to keep her clear. Mom's blood pressure and heart rate are a little high. She is such a fighter! Please continue to pray for her. My dad also needs your prayers. She has been the love of his life since they were 15 years old. This is unbelievably hard on my dad, my brothers, and me. We are at a lost without her. Also continue to pray for my Aunt Deb (her sister), my grandmother, and her brothers, Tommy and Jackie. They are all hurting as well. She is loved by so many people.
In Christ,
Kena and family
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Today
Prayerfully,
Keith and the Family
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Update
Keith
Sunday, September 14, 2008
This weekend
It was a real uneventful weekend. Mother had her eyes open sparingly. She was breathing at a higher rate this weekend, so the nurses had to give her some medication to slow this down. She seemed to rest very well. My aunt Denise did tell me tonight that she was real alert and had her eyes open wide. She said that was the best that she had seen her. More fluid was drawn from her on Friday. The protein count was still high. There was also another CT scan performed on Friday, and we should know if there was any change this week. We continue to pray daily for this horrible situation to improve. It is very hard for us to see our Mother in this condition. We still are asking for everyone to continue praying for her. We appreciate it.
I was given the book 90 minutes in Heaven written by Don Piper by my boss (Thanks Debbie). I completed it this weekend. It was very inspiring. He talks about his encounter with death and how people, not him, prayed him back to life. God says that if you ask for things, in my name, you will recieve. Lord, we and many others are asking. Please bring our Mother back to us.
Keith and Family
Thursday, September 11, 2008
last night
Thank for everything,
Keith
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Update
As you can read from Kena response, Mother is fighting every day to "shake it off" (she would tell us this when we got hurt). With God's love and our support, she will shake it off. We are honored that everyone is concerned with her condition and are praying for her healing. We appreciate it.
Keith and the entire Family
Psalms 118:6
Update for Today
Last night when we saw her, she was very alert. She had her eyes open almost the entire time. I was rubbing her hand with some lotion and she curled and stiffened her fingers. She also curled her fingers around my Aunt Deb's hand night before last. She's not "squeezing" our hands just simply gripping them a little. We are hoping that is some sort of response.
Please know that we appreciate your prayers tremendously! Thank you for the meals, cards, calls, and prayers you have given my family and me!
We are asking everyone to continue to pray for Mom. We know that there is nothing God cannot do! It is truly a miracle that she is here today!
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. (Psalm 46:1)
Kena and the Tatum family
Sunday, September 7, 2008
This weekend
Keith and the Tatum Family
Friday, September 5, 2008
Please continue to Pray for Mother
We continue to ask for prayers for her, because she is still in a horrible place. We are very grateful to all, and thank you for all that you have done. The support tree for our family is tremendous, and we are blessed to have you all.
Monday, September 1, 2008
Mother
It has been a tough weekend for us. Emotions have varied for all of us. The precious person that we have all relied on for everything now needs us to care for her. The doctors informed us that Mother's spinal fluid is not being absorbed by her body. This means that her head still has fluid being produced, but it has no where to go. The doctors have said that they need to place a shunt in to relieve this pressure. This will require another surgery. This will be a set back to Mother's recovery short term, but will obviously help her. We still are asking you to help her with your prayers. She still has rocky road to travel.
Kena, myself, and Kyle have always had our Mother to comfort us. This is a difficult and brand new place that we find ourselves in. We just continue to ask the Lord for peace and strength to guide us through these extraordinary times. Words cannot describe the enormous challenge we are going through. We want to thank everyone for the support throughout this situation that we are trying to deal with.
Sincerely,
Keith
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Update on Mother
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1
Keith and family
Monday, August 25, 2008
Mother
Again we thank everyone from the bottom of our broken hearts. It has been a long two weeks, but you all have made it better,
Keith and Family
Romans 8:28
Sunday, August 24, 2008
Continue Praying

This is Mama with her mother, brothers, and sister. The picture was taken last Thanksgiving. She doing good today. They are still weening her from the ventilator. Every day we have with her is a miracle. We are praying that God will perform a miracle on her. The nurse said last night she called Mama by her name and she opened her eyes. God is so good! She is the rock of our family and we desperately want her back. Continue praying for her full recovery. All we ask from any of you is prayer.
Love you all,
Kena and the Tatum family
Saturday, August 23, 2008
Amazing Family and Friends
Love to you all,
Kena and the entire Tatum family
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Another day with Mother
God has told us that if we believe in Him then anything is possible. Psalms 22:24 states The Lord does not ignore the one who is in trouble. He does not hide from him. He listens when the one in trouble calls out to Him. (This is from Cash's childrens Bible)
Lord, we are in trouble and need you to continue working for our family. We love you!
Thanks for all the prayers,
Keith
Update
Thanks to all,
Keith
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Update

Friday, August 15, 2008
We love you all,
Kena and Family
You're in our prayers
We just want to let you know we are thinking of you and your family and PRAYING for your mom's recovery. Brennan wanted me to tell you that he said a prayer for you and misses you.
Sympathy and Regards,
Yupin & Kevin Lee and Family
Thursday, August 14, 2008
We Love You ALL,
Kena and Family
Update on Sue Tatum's Condition
Written Tuesday, August12:
"I talked to Kena today. She is trying to be very strong. But, she is very close to her mom & this is very hard on her.
Sunday, her mom had brain surgery to remove the pressure off her brain. They did have to remove some of her brain. She has shown some brain activity. And, she is currently on a ventilator. Today, her mom had surgery on her arm today to repair a damaged bone. She did very well.
They are all trying to all stay very hopeful. She is asking for everyone to please pray for her mom! Please tell everyone you know to pray! I told her that I would send an e-mail out. She is very thankful all of your prayers & concerns.
I know that some of you wanted to do something for Kena. If you would like to bring dinner for her family...Please contact Karen Bear at 361-3964. I am going to the hospital tomorrow evening. I will keep everyone posted."
- This post was submitted by Missy Miller on behalf of Kena Smyth, Sue's daughter




